Archive for October 2009
Between A Realist and A Real Dreamer
I believe all people in this world only have two ways of life.
1. The first way is to be someone who is realistic with all their decision. This way of life will give you a safe way to live; no deep scar on your heart and no glorious joy whatsoever.
2. The second one is to be someone who always pursue what they want ignoring whether it is possible or impossible. Just simply follow your heart and follow your ego. As a result, there are possibilities to feel insanely down or vice versa.
Cool your head, drink a glass of water, and think clearly which way of life do you choose. By defining this, you are a step further on knowing who you really are. Realistic people who love to act within his range of competency will feel good if they can measure what are they capable of. On the other hand, the person who always follow his heart will feel satisfied everytime he takes risk. So in what condition that defining whether you are a follower of your dream or someone who realistic can make you a better person?
I should say: in any condition that needed you to make decision. Why? It’s because everytime you make decision, you are being tested that are you someone who really know about yourself or not? If you really know about yourself, then you must be seldom to regret what you’ve decided. And this will lead to a happy life without looking back to your past.
Finally…
Finally… I am writing my blog again! It’s been a long long time ago that I wrote on this blog. Well, lots of things happened during my absence. There were my ups and downs on romance, education, career, friendship, and family. There was a time when I felt quarter-life crisis. And there was the time when I felt that I could climb all the mountains of life in this world. In short, lots and lots of things happened and stupidly, I didn’t write that so I could barely remember those feelings now.
Today is already October, and I haven’t succeed any of my resolutions this year. I guess time goes as fast as bullet train, once you’ve missed the train, there’s no other way you could be on time.
